Sometimes planning it all seems such as waste: - Ekta Bajaj
How many of us have spent sleepless nights, staring at the ceiling -
planning the next big party around the corner, the big trip that's just
month's ahead or even the 'to do list' for work. What if you wake up to
find that life some absolutely different plans. From a moment of
feeling empowered with control over just every aspect of life
- home, relationships, career, you feel you have been slapped right
into your face or been struck with a lightning that gives you the
message loud and clear - LIFE IS VERY UNPREDECTABLE and certainly not in
your hands. You wish you had laughed more when you had chance, shown
more courage when circumstances were not so bad, taken few steps thats
might have made the journey easiar. You regret the choices you had made
and are scared of facing what you have been pushed to.
I did a
show last Sunday on overcoming emotional trauma which come with a
sudden twist in life. The show got a great response from listeners and I
was really happy to talk to many winners who had come out of tragedies
as living examples of positive change :-)
All I can say is in
these times remember that BEING hurt is something that you can't stop,
but being misreble is always your choice. GEAR UP and FACE the REALITY.
DENIAL to ACCEPTANCE WHY ME to WHAT NOW? FEAR to HOPE I REGRET to I TAKE CHARGE I am ANGRY to I am WISE I CAN'T handle this to I am STRONG enough
Planning ahead is good but living everyday in present is even better...